Viewers, Here is an outline of a 2 part post series entitled: “Confrontation”.
On a beach in n. florida, I witnessed an adult cross the boundaries of two children. I confronted them directly.
I think through this interaction a lot.
Here are the sentiments that follow me to this day, things I wish I could’ve expressed at the time of this interaction:
I hope these kids are ok
I hope you found an adult you trust.
I hope that you are safe to speak freely.
It doesn’t matter if you previously knew the adult or not; THIS BEHAVIOR IS UNACCEPTABLE.
I was not the only witness; the other family who witnessed this interaction showed support and encouragement.
My current Sense of Self: Proud. Confident. Reassured. Validated.
I did my best to stay in my Heart.
I started with a question.
I found neutrality within myself
to iterate my observation
in a neutral way.
I personally maintained my physical composure.
I am aware of my own neurological response.
Listening.
A response.
Affirmations.
Encouragement.
Gratitude.
I hope the adult I confronted is unlearning these behaviors.
I hope they move forward
doing no harm
to themselves
OR ANOTHER.
This is the way.